I do have school pictures - I just have to find the card reader so they will hopefully be up soon.
When Porter got home from school today we were discussing his day. He started telling me how he felt sad at lunch because he couldn't have an ice cream. I asked if the buyers got ice cream. He said no the coach handed them out to everyone in the class because it was Shepherd's birthday. So I asked Porter why he didn't get one. I asked if it was because he didn't want one. His little lip started to quiver - then he looked at me and said "Mom you know I love ice cream - of course I wanted it." Then the tears started to fall - those big silent ones that melt your heart. He replied that he didn't get an ice cream because last year we told him not to buy ice cream at lunch. This is true - we did tell him that if he bought a lunch not to buy "extra" stuff like chips, water bottles etc. So I asked again who gave him the ice cream. He told me again it was the coach and she said he didn't have to buy it because Shepherd's parents bought if for everyone for his birthday treat. Porter told her he couldn't have it. She told him it was ok - he still said no. Then she asked if he was allergic to it. He told her he wasn't but that his parents had told him not to buy ice cream at lunch. Again, she told him it was free for him. He still said no but she said he had to take it because it was already paid for. So he told her he didn't know what to do - and she said if you shouldn't have it I guess you can throw it away. So my sweet little boy sat there while the rest of his class was eating ice cream and didn't even cry - but at the end of lunch he threw his in the garbage because he didn't want to be disobedient. Even with a teacher telling him it was ok he still did what he thought in his heart was best. As you can probably imagine with all my extremely pregnant hormones I just broke down and cried right along with him. We told him it was absolutely ok to have an ice cream if one of the teachers gives it to him and that sometimes if he asks us ahead of time he can even buy one - he just needs to ask first. So tonight he went to the store and picked out a half gallon of his favorite ice cream. We told him that we were so proud of him for trying so hard to make the right choice. And guess who is going to buy an ice cream at school tomorrow?
I love my sweet little boy so very much and even though I feel terrible about what happened and the confusion he had at lunch today I am so very thankful he is willing to be obedient. He was trying so hard to do what was right and I am so thankful for his example.